“Forgiveness doesn’t mean pretending the wound never happened. It means deciding the person who hurt you no longer gets to write the rest of your story.”
Other People's Shoes
Heart
"I truly enjoyed being a guest on Other People's Shoes. Neil is someone who has genuinely created something from his heart, and the work he does on his show is rooted in Love. He has created a beautiful platform to hold space for others' stories and is a wonderful listener who asks thoughtful and engaging questions. Thanks for having me, Neil!"
Oriana Sparks
May 1, 2026
Real Depth without Sugarcoating
"This was one of the more in-depth episodes I’ve been part of. Neil did a great job leading the conversation in a way that really serves his audience. What stood out was how open the conversation became around dyslexia and the real struggles behind it, making it something a lot of neurodivergent people will relate to. We got right to the core of what matters without any sugar-coating it. A well-led episode and a host who knows how to bring out depth."
Coach Willie Blake
April 21, 2026
Understanding lives we've never met
"Being a guest on Stepping Into Other People’s Shoes and talking about forgiveness was powerful for me. Forgiveness isn’t an easy thing to talk about, especially when you’ve lived through real pain, mistakes, and consequences. But the conversation created a space where I could be honest about what forgiveness really looks like, like owning your past, letting go of bitterness, and choosing to move forward. What I appreciated most about the podcast is that it’s about understanding people instead of condemning them. Everyone has a story, and sometimes forgiveness is the first step toward real change. I’m grateful I had the opportunity to share that part of my journey."
Matt Sisneros
April 6, 2026
Delightfully Deep, Hilariously Funny
"I recently appeared as a guest on Other People's Shoes Podcast and loved how Neil weaved humor and storytelling into the interview. He created a sense of safety for me to tell my very traumatic story. His questions are reflective of someone who thinks deeply, yet makes what others might think as heavy into the stuff of everyday life through sensitivity and humor. I highly recommend this podcast to anyone seeking inspiration to stay positive, develop empathy, and recognize their connectedness to the human family."
Carron Silva, Ph.D.
March 31, 2026
Honest and open conversation!
"Thank you Neil,For the beautiful and honest conversation about a very important topic - forgiveness. Such an honour to co-create with such open and and cating humans.Thank you for the work you do!"
Gareth Pickering
March 18, 2026
Porch Light
"What I liked most about this episode was the tension. I loved that I didn’t just nod along, I pushed back. The whole standards versus expectations conversation really got under my skin in the best way. It forced me to look at how I treat people, what I demand from them, and what I demand from myself. I also appreciated how honest the conversation felt, from the porch light story to my own struggles with labels growing up. It wasn’t polished or neat. It was real, and that’s what made it powerful for me."
Ikram
Feb. 28, 2026
Unboxing review
"I think this was an amazing episode and really made me reflect on my life especially the clean space part😂. I love how relatable parts of the episode felt. Overall there’s great advice"
Olivia Lenhart
Feb. 26, 2026
Love OPS!
"Enjoying listening to OPS, excited for more episodes."
Loqui Listening
Feb. 13, 2026
Love Listening to Other People's Shoes
"I started listening to Other People's Shoes last year and I have shared it with so many friends. I love listening to Other People's Shoes & I enjoyed being a guest with Neil too. Looking forward to future episodes Neil. Go Tarheels."
Shane
Feb. 13, 2026
Such fun
"Love the podcast! Neil asks incredible thought provoking questions. As a listener, I felt drawn into the his questions as if he was reading my mind on what I wanted to know too. As a guest, I had the honor of being on his 400th episode. What a monumental occasion! To see his hard work, blood, sweat, and tears come to fruition felt like a parent being proud of their child's accomplishments. He has dedicated his time, energy and effort to bringing important topics to life.. Wonderful show. Neil is a fantastic host!"
Shā Sparks
Feb. 8, 2026
Meaningful Conversations
"What an honor to be interviewed on Other People's Shoes! Neil is a masterful conversationalist, but also very compassionate when it comes to sensitive topics. This podcast is such a blessing whether you are hurting from a particular wound or you just love to learn from those that have walked the path before you."
Cristina P Simmons
Feb. 4, 2026
Fresh and eye opening
"I love that Neil challenges his guests. That is exactly how we get to see others perspectives and views, no right or wrong just points of views. I really enjoyed being a guest and I look forward to the airing.With calm yet loving power,Ann"
Ann O.
Jan. 10, 2026
Podcast morning show? Refreshingly unrehearsed.
"Neil was great. Honestly bit was a like being on a morning talk show. Neil was an expert question asker And the topics were a blend of humor and deep serious. As someone who has extensive experience being on podcasts, 60+. Neil conversational abilities were near the top. 5 stars for sure."
Jon Sheldon.
Dec. 22, 2025
5 Stars
"Being on the podcast with Neil was an absolute blast. He was reliable from the moment we booked, charismatic the second the mic turned on, and easygoing throughout the entire conversation. The whole experience felt natural and fun, and I walked away feeling energized and grateful to have been on the show. I’d gladly come back anytime!"
Vanessa Hankins
Dec. 1, 2025
Marco Vega
"Amazing show. Great questions. Great people."
Marco Vega
Nov. 24, 2025
Great Podcast Host
"Neil is an exceptional host and interviewer. His thorough preparation and thoughtful approach created a smooth, engaging, and genuinely enjoyable experience. The conversation flowed naturally, filled with meaningful insights and authentic dialogue. I was impressed by his ability to foster a relaxed yet focused atmosphere. I highly recommend reaching out to Neil if your story aligns with his theme you’ll be in excellent hands."
Dave Booth
Oct. 23, 2025
Such a Great Conversation!
"Neil was incredible as a host — warm, engaging, and genuinely easy to talk to. He kept the conversation flowing naturally and created such a comfortable space to share deeply personal experiences. You can tell he truly listens and cares about every story that’s shared on Other People’s Shoes. This podcast is such a meaningful reminder that we all have something worth walking through together."
Tiffaney Childers
Oct. 10, 2025
Don’t Miss This Podcast
"Neil is an excellent host and that voice I often hear when I get judgmental or dismissive of someone. He asks the questions I think in my head but don’t always speak out loud. He’s funny, discerning, and insightful as he takes listeners on a journey, not only in other people’s shoes but in a way that impacts your own walk on the daily. Thank you Neil!"
Living the Grace Life
Oct. 9, 2025
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What a great conversation
"I really loved being a guest on Neil's show. Even though we were not completely aligned on all the issues we discussed around relationships and intimacy, there was great discourse and a lot of mutual respect for each other's positions. I felt seen and heard, even when I was challenged some about my beliefs. I also love that this show is not afraid to examine what it's really like to step into other people's shoes, even if those shoes don't fit. Neil is kind, thoughtful, intelligent and passionate and an awesome podcast host."
Xanet Pailet
Oct. 2, 2025
Duke vs UNC
"I had such a wonderful experience talking to Neil today. I think it’s so important that we not only share our stories, but see what it’s like to look at life from a different perspective. Neil was a pleasure to talk to and made me feel so comfortable. It was evident from the very beginning that he practices what he preaches when he learned that my family are all Duke fans! Thank you, Neil for listening and helping me to tell my story in a way that is meaningful!"
Christi Kelsey
Sept. 27, 2025
A Genuine Gem of a Podcast!
"Neil Matthews is such a genuine host! He has an energetic style that draws you in, and he has a gift for digging out the gold in every interview. You can feel his authenticity throughout. So glad I found this gem of a podcast!"
Kimberly Haar
Sept. 25, 2025
The Porch Light
"I had a great time being a guest. Neil conducted himself professionally and asked engaging questions to keep the conversation flowing easily. I highly recommend and would love to be a guest again in the future."
Kelly Meyer
Sept. 16, 2025
Such a blast!
"Neil brings a lot of energy and intention to his show, love how he thinks and draws correlations and connections I never would which I'm sure is why his listeners love him."
Danielle Matthews
Sept. 12, 2025
Amazing podcast . . . . especially for a Carolina Fan
"As a Duke Graduate, I should really just not listen, but Neil brings an energy that is like none other. He is great at carrying on a conversation and makes his guests come to life. Although I struggled to get past all his baby blue love, Neil is an exceptional host and his podcast is entertaining, enlightening, and fun."
Monica McKitterick
Aug. 27, 2025