Pain has a way of clipping our wings and keeping us from being able to fly, and if left unresolved you can almost forget that you were ever created to fly in the first place.

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Nov. 22, 2023

The Root Of The Matter

What comes to mind you you read "grow where you are planted"? In California, there are some massive trees called Sequoia. The roots of Sequoia trees in California are as fascinating as the towering giants they support above ground. Despite their immense height, these trees have surprisingly shallow root systems,…

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Nov. 15, 2023

The Call

The phrase "you make the call" is an idiomatic expression that means it's up to you to make a decision or judgment in a particular situation. It is often used when there's a need for someone to take responsibility for a choice or action. In essence, it is putting the…

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Nov. 8, 2023

I Want To Be A Real Real Person

What did you feel when you watched the scene in Pinocchio, where all he wants is to be real? My guest today is Alice Millis. Is all about authenticity. Alice takes us on a journey few want to talk about. Why did she choose to leave her narcissistic husband? For…

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Nov. 1, 2023

Can You Do Hard Things?

What is the hardest thing you have ever done? Take a moment...What is it? My guest is Hannah Conway. Doing hard things can help you grow in numerous ways. When you challenge yourself with difficult tasks or face adversity, you push the boundaries of your comfort zone and confront your…

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Oct. 25, 2023

Your Place In This World

Finding your place in this world is a deeply personal and often transformative journey. It involves discovering your unique passions, strengths, and values, while also navigating the complexities of life. It's about understanding where you belong and how you can make a meaningful impact, both for yourself and for the…

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Oct. 18, 2023

Are You The Best?

"You're the best around, Nothing's gonna ever keep you down, You're the best around, Nothing's gonna ever keep you down. You're the best around, Nothing's gonna ever keep you down"...By Joe Esposito. There is a part in the original The Karate Kid where you hear these lyrics. I can't help…

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Oct. 11, 2023

Diamond Rings

Did you know...Marilyn Monroe first sang the song 'Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend' from the film Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. After all a diamond is a symbol of enduring love: Diamonds are one of the hardest substances on Earth, making them a symbol of enduring and everlasting love. This durability…

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Oct. 4, 2023

SNAJ

When four friends get together, anything can happen. In the tapestry of life, woven strong and true, Three friends stand out, a radiant, cherished crew. Each unique, a gift, in their own special way, Together, we bask in the warmth of each day. 👟 First, there's the one with a…

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Sept. 27, 2023

Mirror On The Wall

Mirror on the wall, I turn away from your harsh truths I won't betray. I fear the judgment in your glassy gaze, the flaws you magnify, the doubts you raise. I know within, imperfections dwell, but in your reflection, they loudly swell. I long for moments without your call, to…

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Sept. 20, 2023

Yes, Man

The power of saying "Yes" lies in its ability to open doors to uncharted territories and unleash the boundless potential within us. It is a catalyst for personal growth, a key that unlocks new experiences, and a bridge to meaningful connections. When we say "Yes," we embrace change, challenge our…

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Sept. 13, 2023

Fixing Your Want To

"What style of shoe do you like to wear?" This is a common question we start every show with. Well, today my guest is Wendy Wallace. Wendy gives a very unique answer. Back in 2011, Wendy contracted a flesh-eating bacteria. What started as flu symptoms, progressed into a life-threatening illness…

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Sept. 6, 2023

NOT here

There is a scene in "Forrest Gump" Where Forrest gets on the bus and tries to sit down and is told "You can't sit here" "Seats taken" What I hear in that sense is "NOT here"! What about you? What do you hear? I believe strongly that some churches today…

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Aug. 30, 2023

SEASON FINALE | The Phone Call

SEASON FINALE: It's been said every story has a new chapter. Today we walk with Amy Getzlow. Amy is the wife of Neil Getzlow. Neil was a past guest earlier this season. Amy today shares her side of what went on as she discovered Neil had been having multiple extra…

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Aug. 23, 2023

The Voice Within The Mask

Imagine for a moment your father putting you in a trash can and saying to you "This is where you belong." What would that do to you? How long would that one event stick with you? My guest today is Dr. Mark McNear. Mark grew up hearing harsh words that…

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Aug. 16, 2023

YOU'RE NOT ALONE

I'll do that later...Weight loss, it feels like that is one of those things we, or I keep putting off. I'll start next Monday. Well, today is the day to start. My guest today is Alana Van Der Sluys she is a Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, TEDx speaker, eating disorder…

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Aug. 9, 2023

Other Side of the Coin

The phrase "the other side of the coin" is an idiomatic expression that refers to a different perspective or aspect of a situation, issue, or concept. Just like a coin has two sides, this expression suggests that there are two contrasting viewpoints or facets to consider. It implies that one…

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Aug. 2, 2023

Very Angry Indeed

One of my favorite cartoon characters is Marvin the Martian. He has a quote "That makes me very angry, very angry indeed". Anger is a normal and natural emotion experienced by all humans at some point in their lives. It is often triggered by feeling frustrated, threatened, or hurt in…

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July 26, 2023

The Battle Over The Mask

How are you fighting this battle? My guest today is Fred Stoeker. . Fred stops by to share why he wrote this new book "Battle On, Battle Over". Fred believes you can achieve victory in your battle for sexual purity--Starting Today! Fred shares we live in a culture that's awash…

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July 19, 2023

Finally Unmasked

When is the last time you heard "I forgive you"? I forgive you. Three simple words. Life changing? More like life-saving. My guest today is Neil Getzlow, Author of "Unmasked" Neil talks about the power of forgiveness and unconditional love is life-changing. For Neil, it goes back to that life-changing…

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July 12, 2023

I Know That Mask

"On this episode of Other People’s Shoes, join host Neil Matthews as he encourages listeners to put themselves in Other People's Shoes and change their perspective. Neil starts off by sharing a personal anecdote about binge-watching a TV show, setting the stage for a lively and relatable discussion. Later, Neil…

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July 5, 2023

That Is A Stupid Thing To Do

**** DISCLAIMER PLEASE DO NOT TAKE UNLESS YOU SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP FIRST. **** A few months back a very good friend, who I believe is one of the smartest people I have interacted with Sean McCoy. Shared with me that he had taken Magic Mushrooms. My first reaction was "That…

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June 28, 2023

Transcend Beyond The Mask

How would you define the word transcend? One definition is to go further, rise above, or be more important or better than something, especially a limit: My guest today is Catherine Llewellyn. To transcend beyond the mask means to go beyond the superficial or false identity that one may wear…

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June 21, 2023

Unveiling the Mystery

We are unveiling the Mystery of Bigfoot: A Legendary Encounter. In this episode, we explore the enigmatic legend of Bigfoot, a creature that has fascinated people worldwide for centuries. My guest is Greg Roberts. Greg shares with us all things Bigfoot from his point of view. We delve into the…

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June 14, 2023

Glorious Grace

A narcissist is typically defined as an individual who has an excessive preoccupation with themselves, an inflated sense of self-importance, and a lack of empathy for others. They often have an intense desire for admiration and attention and may display arrogant or entitled behaviors. Narcissists tend to have an exaggerated…

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