“Forgiveness doesn’t mean pretending the wound never happened. It means deciding the person who hurt you no longer gets to write the rest of your story.”
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July 8, 2026

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⚠️ LISTENER WARNING: Dr. Carron Silva talks openly about being sexually abused in this episode. This conversation also includes domestic violence, trauma, police brutality, and political violence. Please listen with care.
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Season 23: The List
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Is forgiveness possible when the cost is high?
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This week on Other People’s Shoes, Neil walks in the shoes of Dr. Carron Silva, whose story began in South Africa under Apartheid and includes deep childhood trauma, painful family separation, abuse, violence, and injustice.
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But this episode does not stay in the pain. It moves toward healing. 🌱 It moves toward freedom. 🕊️ It moves toward what is possible. 🙏
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Dr. Carron shares what it means to forgive when the wound is personal, why the word **“as”** in the Lord’s Prayer carries so much weight, and what being whole can look like when the past is still part of your story.
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Forgiveness is not pretending it did not happen. Forgiveness is not saying it was ok…
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