“Not every knock at your front door is asking to come in. Some are asking if you’re finally ready to answer.”
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April 1, 2026

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We all got “the talk”…
but let’s be honest

No one really taught us anything. 👀

This week on *Other People’s Shoes*, I sit down with Xanet Pailet for a conversation most of us have avoided our entire lives.

Not just about sex…
but about connection 🤝
About disconnection 💔
About what happens when you spend years… even decades… not feeling anything at all.

Xanet Pailet shares what it was like to live in a sexless marriage for 26 years… and what changed…

Listen to the Episode